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Pink Roses #LEGO Review

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Valentine’s Day has a way of feeling a bit heavy, doesn’t it? Whether you’re swept up in the romance or just trying to navigate the day with a bit of peace, there’s always that quiet pressure to make it “special.” This year, my mental health has been a bit of a struggle, and I really needed a way to quiet the noise in my head. I sent my husband on a mission to Costco to pick up the LEGO Bouquet of Pink Roses for just $60 CAD—an absolute steal! He was so sweet and even surprised me with a gorgeous bouquet of real flowers too, but the LEGO set ended up being the perfect, gentle distraction I needed to find my inner peace again. 🤍💐

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Please Note: Before I get started, I will mention that all images are my own. And yes, there’s a photo of my adorable rescue cat, curious about what I’m about to do with that LEGO box!

Images: The OG cat sitting next to the OG box of Lego roses. Next to my cat you’ll notice some beautiful carnations that are just as lovely, but do require some extra care. 🐈‍⬛💕

𖥧𖤣.𖡼✿ Everlasting Blooms ✿𖡼.𖤣𖥧

There is something so incredibly therapeutic about the rhythmic click-clack of LEGO. I initially started the build as a way to quiet my mind, a bit of “me time” to keep my hands busy and my thoughts still. Honestly, I needed something to distract my brain from spiraling into an oblivion of depression and self-loathing. It was one of those evenings where I just needed to tune out the world, and this set provided the perfect anchor. Before I knew it, I was completely tucked into my own little world, surrounded by tiny pink petals and green stems.

I ended up finishing the entire bouquet in a single evening; it took about 6 hours total to complete. Even with a few tea breaks and the usual life interruptions, a phone call here or a snack break there, the time just seemed to melt away. There’s a specific kind of satisfaction that comes from starting a project after dinner and having a finished, tangible piece of art by the time you’re ready for bed. It felt like a productive escape, a way to turn a potentially stressful holiday into something tactile and calming. ✨

A display of four pink LEGO roses with green bases, positioned near a white bowl and a black box in the background.
Image: A close-up of the pink LEGO rose bricks, showcasing their intricate design as they await assembly.

The color palette is where this set truly comes to life. The soft pink gradients are stunning, moving away from flat, artificial tones to create a genuine depth that catches the light beautifully. There is an organic quality to the petals that makes the arrangement feel surprisingly real. To round it all out, the set includes four sprigs of baby’s breath. Those tiny white flowers are the unsung heroes of the build; they provide the perfect contrast and “fluff” to make the bouquet look like it was plucked straight from a boutique florist. Seeing it all come together made that $60 investment feel like a total steal for such a high-quality display. 🌹💐

In case anyone is wondering about the display, I actually picked up the vase from Dollarama. The bottom of the vase is a bit wobbly, so I’m not entirely sure yet if I’ll add some stones to the base for extra weight. As long as the cat or the toddler doesn’t knock it over, I don’t think it will be a problem!

Images: Yes, I got the vase from Dollarama because #hearts. I had a vision for this project, and overall I’m happy with how it turned out. 🥰

My Honest Review: 9/10 ⭐

I’m giving this set a solid 9 out of 10 because it was a high-quality build that served as a perfect emotional “reset.” I loved watching the roses start to bloom, seeing the stems grow, and noticing how the bouquet was slowly taking shape in my vase. It’s rare to find a hobby that is both stimulating and relaxing at the same time, but the LEGO Botanical Collection really nails that balance. 🎀💕

However, I have to be honest about the one notable drawback: the repetitiveness of this build. Because you create multiple identical stems, it eventually feels like a one-person assembly line, which might be tedious for builders who thrive on constant variety. On the other hand, that same repetition can be surprisingly meditative if you’re in the right headspace. It allowed me to shift into “autopilot” mode—the LEGO equivalent of a long, peaceful walk that leaves just enough room to process your thoughts without feeling overwhelmed.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS

Ultimately, these roses are a beautiful, permanent addition to my home. They require no water and will never wilt, bringing a soft, floral energy to my space that won’t fade with time. Every time I look at them, I will be reminded of that peaceful evening spent creating something beautiful with my own two hands. Since I don’t actually have any shelf space for these roses yet, I am keeping them on my dining room table until I can find a home on my shelf for them. They are currently sitting next to a bouquet of real carnations, which are also beautiful, and the two look lovely together. 💞

If you are looking for a gift for a loved one or a treat for yourself that lasts much longer than a traditional bouquet, I cannot recommend this set enough, especially if you love pink flowers. It is a project that truly rewards your time, resulting in a stunning piece of home décor that complements almost any aesthetic. 🌸🙌

Image: A beautiful arrangement of LEGO pink roses from the Botanical Collection, showcasing a delightful blend of creativity, tranquility, and love.

Are you a fan of the LEGO Botanical Collection? I’d love to hear which set is currently on your wishlist. Let’s chat in the comments below! ↓ I’ll do my best to reply to all of your comments when I have a moment. Please note that my phone storage is full right now, and I need to fix that, so replies may be slow.

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My Goals for 2026

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In the past, I’ve written about why New Year’s resolutions suck and why S.M.A.R.T. goals don’t in this blog post. Additionally, I was breaking everything down into monthly, bite-sized pieces, but it felt way too time-consuming and redundant. So, this year, I’m sticking to a straightforward yearly list. This list is in no particular order.

I’m also leaning into flexibility—if the last few years taught me anything, it’s that plans can change in a heartbeat. I’m leaving out the stuff I can’t control, like doctor visits, social worker paperwork, clinic back-and-forth, and all the travel and costs that come with embryo adoption. I’m praying that this will finally be our year. *Sigh* It’s been a long road, so I’m trying to stay grounded and just take things as they come. Let’s get started, shall we?

My 2026 Game Plan: The Full List

1. Be able to hoop in both directions with ease. I’m getting better with this and want to do this with and without shoes.

2. Hula hoop every day that I’m not working. I’ve actually been doing great with this so far, but I don’t want to jinx it! Basically, if I miss a day, I just do a double session on my next day off.

3. Upgrade my hula hoop to a fancy HDPE or a polypro hoop. My current basic HDPE one works fine, but it’s definitely not fancy. Also, I’ve realized how much I actually hate my first DIY weighted hoop—it weighs a ton! If you’re curious about what I’m talking about, you can check out The Hoopologie Guide.

Image source: Images are my own. Bringing the outdoors inside on cold days when I have to do an indoor workout.

4. Lose the excess post-pregnancy weight and winter weight. I still have about 25 lbs to go, and honestly, I’ve struggled to drop the baby weight after both pregnancies. At least I’m finally doing something about it this year!

5. Buy some new clothes for the Singapore trip. We’re going on a trip near the end of March, and I’m also hoping to fit back into some old favorites that are still a bit tight.

6. Fit into my jeans from 2018. This totally ties into my last goal. I’d be so happy if I could at least fit into these again!

7. Upload one blog post a week, or at least aim for 3–4 posts a month. I really want to be more consistent with this since it’s so easy to let blogging slide when life gets busy.

8. Goal to cash out again on Redbubble at least once in 2026. Actually, I already hit this goal yesterday! ✔️

Note: For every sticker sale, I make a teeny, tiny comission. 💵

9. Goal to cash out at least once on Medium. I’ve been stuck at $4.00, and the minimum payout is $10. I haven’t been very active lately, but I’d love to change that. If you use Medium too, please give me a follow—I follow back! @sereneluna

10. Learn to be happy without spending money.  I want to stop online shopping just because I’m bored or trying to fill a void. I actually stopped collecting things for this exact reason. I know I have a bad Temu habit—especially at 2:00 AM—but I’m trying to be way more mindful about it.

11. Use up my makeup and hair products before buying more. I’m planning to finish what I’ve got first and just learn to manage with what’s already in my stash. Honestly, I just have way too much stuff right now.

12. Take a “spiritual enlightenment” trip once a month. I’m recording these dates in my calendar because I want to stay consistent. I started off strong in October 2025, but honestly, it’s gotten way harder with the kids around. I really need a day of zero responsibilities and have someone around to make these “solo” therapy sessions work.

ᴛʜᴇ ᴊᴏᴜʀɴᴇʏ ꜱᴏ ꜰᴀʀ:

🍄 Oct 8, 2025
🍄 Oct 20, 2025
🍄 Oct 31, 2025
🍄 Dec 11, 2025
🍄 Jan 15, 2026
🍄 Feb (Pending…) ✨

13. Make more of my own capsules for microdosing. I plan on using the specific varieties I have on hand—I just need to set aside a day to actually blend and prep them. I’ve already got my empty #00 and #0 gel caps ready to go. Years ago, I made “weight loss” supplements from Pinterest using various spices from my kitchen, so I’m definitely no stranger to making my own supplements. 😝💊

Image made using AI: How AI envisions this mantra. 💕

14. Learn to be happy with drinking water. Instead of soda water, tea etc. because it’s getting expensive, I want to buy some lemons or limes to flavor water. Even lemons and limes are expensive, but I buy 1 at a time and they last a long time. 🍋💦

15. Replace my broken Nalgene water bottle. If not, I guess I’ll have to get used to using the Stanley cup I already have. TBH, I still prefer the Nalgene.

16. Finish using the Cirkl cartridges and don’t buy any more. I haven’t touched them in months and honestly don’t care for the brand—it’s a very overrated water bottle, in my opinion.

17. Finish the art projects I have already started.  I’m currently working on the diamond painting feathers. Just to clarify, I’m not doing these for Becca; she actually has the same diamond feather set that I do!

Image source: Images are my own. I turned the feathers into tree ornaments.

18. Start treating my body better. I want to go to bed at a decent time, get enough sleep, and drink plenty of water. I also want to read more books and journal more often. It’s all about the fundamentals, yenno?

19. Finish my lucky paper star jars.  I’ve done one out of six so far. Once I’m through with those last two diamond painting feathers, I can move on to the paper stars for teacher gifts. It’ll probably take me several months to finish them all! ⭐️

20. Finish reading 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson. I still haven’t finished it because reading always makes me so sleepy. It’s definitely a goal to finally finish reading the book this year.

21. Finish transferring my iPhone photos to the computer and then delete them. I have a hard time deleting photos, but I need to make more storage space. I have a ton of digital clutter that needs to be dealt with. 👩‍💻

22. Organize my work binder and catch up on my reflections and work goals. These are due by September 30, 2026, so I have some time to get everything in order.

23. Get a pedicure this summer, maybe for my birthday. I recently got one and really liked it. I guess this is more of a bucket list goal, but I’m counting it!

24. Learn how to braid hair. I’m terrible at it, but I really wish I could learn. Or maybe my husband can learn how to braid it for me instead.

👉Images are my own. Here are a couple of rare selfies of me! 💁‍♀️

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS

I think my goals for 2026 are quite reasonable and realistic. Instead of overcomplicating things, I’ve focused on what I can actually handle while leaving room for the unexpected. Having this list written down feels like a great way to keep myself accountable, and I’m looking forward to seeing how much I can check off by the end of the year.

Image source: Image is my own. Hello old friend.

Do we share any similar goals? What are your goals for 2026? Do you believe in New Year’s resolutions, or do you think they’re a waste of time too? Let me know in the comments section below ↓ I’ll do my best to reply to everyone.

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About that December 2024 Recap….

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Hi everyone! I am coming out of hibernation and opened WordPress on my laptop for the first time since December 2024. I realize how much I’ve missed connecting with all of you through my posts and updates. I’ve also missed leaving comments on your blog posts. Reading your blogs on a regular basis has been something I missed too. In case you missed my last blog post from December 2024, you can read it here. I never did update you on which goals I ended up accomplishing. Honestly, I don’t really remember the details because I didn’t write them down.

December Goals | Winter 2024

No Motivation for Anything

I am not proud of completely abandoning my blog. What you witnessed here was my last blog post that I had written. Yes, it dates back to my goals for December 2024. To summarize how December went, everyone in my immediate family got sick during Christmas break except me. Usually, my immune system is terrible, but for some reason, I didn’t get sick, so that remains a mystery. That being said, I was sick last week and spent this week recovering from a nasty head cold.🤷‍♀ ️

Rethinking My Game Plan

I recently discovered that a work colleague of mine is making good money with digital marketing. She was kind and told me what it’s about without gate keeping her strategy, but I don’t want to get into digital marketing. I also don’t want to actively use Instagram or TikTok to sell courses. However, this makes my #Redbubble side hustle feel more like a waste of time than ever before. My Redbubble earnings are peanuts compared to my colleague’s impressive 5-figure income from her side hustle. This realization also made me rethink my entire strategy. On top of everything, the algorithm on #Redbubble is punishing me for being inactive on their site. It would mean the world to me if you check out my little shop on there. I am 2 likes away from reaching 2,000 favorited items! ❤

🌸 My Redbubble Shop: @sereneluna 🌸


♡ You can browse all of my 108 designs here: http://shorturl.at/otvxQ

The CAD prices have changed due to recent inflation. Unfortunately, the inflation that we are all experiencing to some degree has impacted many small businesses and their pricing strategies. Thus, I had to offset the costs to maintain my profit margins. It was also necessary to justify continuing with this side hustle, because otherwise, what’s the point of doing it? I know that I am passionate about this side hustle and want to keep doing it. And the best part? It’s zero inventory so less clutter (except digital clutter) in my house. If I make zero sales by the end of the month, I’ll probably readjust the prices back to what they were before. I truly value my customers and want to keep my prices affordable.

Honestly, I think it’s more of an algorithm issue. It’s not as much of a price issue because visibility and reach often play a crucial role in sales performance. Right now, my prices are set to $2.04 CAD. The Canadian Dollar is so bad right now. This makes it difficult for me to sustain this hobby (time + effort) without making these adjustments. I am hopeful that as market conditions improve, I can revert to more competitive pricing.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I know this is an unconventional blog post yet again. I want to explain why I haven’t been blogging lately. I’m feeling overwhelmed with everything in my life right now and I need to determine what I need to do to get my life in order and back on track. I’m also struggling with depression and anxiety, which makes it hard to find motivation. I often blame the long winters and lack of sunshine in Alberta, but I also hold myself accountable. Still, I’m trying to remain hopeful, even when I feel lost. My goal for this year is to create at least one digital product related to this blog, aimed at people who, like me, are struggling with mental health and trying to get their lives on track. Not only that, but I want to figure out how to market it, preferably in USD.

Do you struggle with everyday life? Do you feel completely lost like I do? Do you feel scatterbrained with no clear path? Feel free to leave a comment below ↓ I would be grateful if you followed me on Twitter/𝕏 (@serene_hilz). This is, of course, if you aren’t already a follower. It is harder than ever to grow on that platform. I really enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

December Goals | Winter 2024

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Hello everyone! Do you still remember me? It feels like it’s been a lifetime since I last shared my goals with you. I promised myself I’d write this post for December 2024, but here we are, on the 18th, and I’m just catching up with how fleeting time has become. I’m honestly shocked and a little heartbroken that Christmas is nearly upon us. There’s this tug-of-war in my heart; I’m excited for the joy of the season, yet so sad because every Christmas marks another year gone, another year older, and I’m not ready to face that reality. It’s like my biological clock is racing, and I can’t keep up.

Rebecca at her Christmas concert 😊

My daughter’s been ill this whole week, so I’ve had very little sleep. Not much has changed goal-wise since my last update, except I’ve completely given up on dieting. Surprisingly, ditching dieting altogether works better for me – my appetite naturally decreases when I eat freely. I’ve decided against fasting though; just thinking about it makes my stomach growl.

Ⓒⓗⓡⓘⓢⓣⓜⓐⓢ ⓘⓢ Ⓒⓞⓜⓘⓝⓖ

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Feeling Unsettled This Year

I don’t know about you, but I feel unsettled. Something seems off. Maybe its the looming future, not knowing what’s going to happen to us, and worrying too much about all the bad things happening in the world. I can’t help but worry about the Canadian dollar tanking, seeing it crashing day after day and me being angry at the Federal Government for screwing us hard-working Canadians over. I purposely leave politics out of this blog, but as of late I’ve been ranting more and more about politics to people who clearly don’t want to listen to me drag on about it. I am genuinely worried about the future and it keeps me up at night.

Also, I don’t know if my fellow American friends follow Canadian news (unlikely) but Canada Post was on strike for the last 4 weeks. They are finally off strike, but I have mail that’s still stuck in the states, which I ordered from a small business that specializes in beauty products. Also, I didn’t send out Christmas cards this year due to Canada Post being on strike, and now it seems pointless to send out Christmas cards. That being said, here is what the rest of the month looks like.

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DECEMBER GOALS 2024

Career Goals:

  • Plot availability for January 2025
  • Organize work backpack and drawer(s)
  • Add 2 new designs to #Redbubble
  • Promote winter designs on this blog and #Twitter

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly recap
  • Organize upstairs hallway closet
  • Organize downstairs bookshelf
  • Donate 1-2 big boxes of items to charity
  • Reschedule photos with Santa → December 24, 2024

Health Goals:

  • YMCA 2x per week minimum
  • Clear out the cupboards → Finish 3+ food items
  • Make honey lemon lozenges
  • Start using Stanley cup → start tracking water intake again

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I finally gave in and bought myself a Rose Quartz Stanley cup – not for Christmas, mind you, since I’m planning to start using it right away, but it’s still sitting in its original packaging, looking all brand new lol 😆 It was on sale for $38.00 CAD and who can resist a good deal? I’m really hoping this will be the push I need to get back into the habit of drinking water again. I’ve been plagued by headaches and migraines lately, and I’m not sure if it’s because I’m dehydrated or if it’s just the weather being totally rude.

On a brighter note, my husband bought me a cute pair of winter boots, which I’m absolutely thrilled about. They’re ideal for our chilly Canadian winters 🇨🇦 And my mom gave me a hoodie and some gourmet hot chocolate. I can’t wait to cocoon myself in that hoodie, savoring that rich hot chocolate, perhaps even using my new Stanley cup if I can get around to unpacking it. On another note, I treated myself to a new pair of Nike sneakers during Black Friday week. They might not be as cute as my previous ones – just plain black with white detailing – but my old sneakers with the hot pink laces have holes in them now. I’m still using them for treadmill workouts and not quite ready to say goodbye to them yet.

I am sad to let these old sneakers go 😔

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July Goals? What Goals?

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July went by so fast that I didn’t even write a July Goals blog post. This isn’t my best work but at this point, I don’t care as long as I publish something.

🅹🆄🅻🆈 🆆🅰🆂 🅽🅾🆃🅷🅸🅽🅶 🅱🆄🆃 🅳🆁🅾🆄🅶🅷🆃.

This is an old photo from a few summers ago. Photo is my own.

Sorry I was AFK.

I spent a lot of time away from my laptop. Most of my time was devoted to caring for my kids and the neighbors’ children. Whenever the neighbors’ kids visit, it’s essentially a party at my house. I’ve tried to discourage this because it’s exhausting, and the other moms are exhausted too. I don’t want this blog post to sound like a rant, but I’m in a bad mood. You have been warned.

The Mental Struggle

Being a mom is hard and it’s even harder trying to find the time to sit down and write a blog post. Also, I am beginning to think that my used iPhone 14 hates me. Apps don’t work like they should which is incredibly frustrating, especially when I need that phone for blogging. I really don’t know what’s going on with this phone and I am in the process of waiting to get a replacement. The only problem is that it could take several months since I bought this phone used from a reputable third party store.

The Physical Struggle

Lastly, we had a drought lasting the whole month of July and nothing but hot temps averaging above 30°C every damn day. I did go to the Calgary Stampede this year but didn’t take photos this time. It was a different experience, being able to fully immerse myself in the festivities without the distraction of capturing every moment through a lens. Additionally, I started walking again to maintain an active lifestyle, but the relentless heat has been taking a toll on my energy levels. The scorching sun seems never-ending, making it challenging to enjoy outdoor activities. Hopefully, the forecast will bring some relief soon, as we desperately need rain to alleviate the dry spell. As I don’t have AC in my house so the persistent heat has been quite taxing, leaving me feeling irritable and uncomfortable.

The Emotional Struggle

As you probably know by now, my mental health isn’t the greatest and I am struggling with some stuff that is emotionally draining. I want to talk about it, but I am afraid of sharing too much personal information on here regarding this subject which isn’t really anyone’s business other than my own. I just wish I had someone to talk to because it feels oh so lonely. Also, while I am on the subject of mental health, I am very worried that the custom bridesmaid dress I ordered won’t fit. I leave for Ontario at the end of August, which leaves no time to prepare for my friend’s wedding in September. These are the things that keep me up at night, along with worrying about the unforeseen future.

🅿🅴🆁🆂🅾🅽🅰🅻 🅶🆁🅾🆆🆃🅷 🆃🅷🆁🅾🆄🅶🅷 🆂🅴🅻🅵-🆁🅴🅵🅻🅴🅲🆃🅸🅾🅽.

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The Struggle IS Real!

I find myself still struggling to accept and love myself as body dysmorphia has been a real issue this year. I dislike the way I look, which is mainly why I haven’t taken photos, and now I can’t even hide behind the filtered ones because Snapchat doesn’t work on my phone (I’ll save that for another blog post), which leaves me feeling very vulnerable. The custom dress I ordered is due to arrive mid-August, and I am beyond scared to try it on. I ordered a size slightly smaller because that was the size I was at the beginning of July. Somehow, I let my exercise routine slip, stopped exercising completely, and started drinking diet drinks, which caused me to gain weight. Lesson learned: stay away from diet soda and artificial sweeteners!

I am back to getting 10,000 steps a day and let me tell you, it is hard. I spend most of my days outside walking, and I force myself to go outside in this heat so I get Vitamin D from the sun. My mental health is not good at all, so I need all the help I can get from mother nature, despite it being so hot outside. There are days when I want to quit, but then I remember how easy it is to gain weight if I quit. I am way too hard on myself, but at the same time, I have to be because I am not happy where I am right now. It is incredibly frustrating to never be satisfied with the present moment. Sometimes, I find myself wishing that I could just accept where I am and what I have achieved. I long for the ability to appreciate the progress I have made, to celebrate the small victories instead of always focusing on the next goal. It is a constant struggle to silence the inner critic and embrace self-compassion. I hope that one day I can find peace within myself and cultivate a more positive relationship with my journey. 🧘✨

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

If I did anything right during the month of July, I leaned more towards basic living and started spending more time with myself. Although I didn’t really create anything, if at all, during the month of July, I cut back a lot on consuming content. Yes, I still watch a lot of YouTube videos, but I use it mainly for educational purposes. I still need to cut back on Twitter/𝕏 as I find myself using that app way too much. Spending time in nature has probably been one of the best antidotes for depression, and during that time, I like to listen to spiritual podcasts on iTunes.

The second best antidote for my well-being and overall health has been diving into the world of cooking and baking nourishing meals using fresh, real ingredients instead of relying on inflammatory, ultra-processed foods. It’s a journey of gradual improvement, as I continue to reduce my intake of junk food, acknowledging that it’s a work in progress. I’ve moved past denial and accepted that I made a few slip-ups in July. Believe me, I’ve experienced firsthand the negative impact that junk food has on my body. 😖

For those following me on Twitter/𝕏, I’m still active there, sharing my current hobbies and interests. If you have an account, feel free to follow me, and I’ll follow you back! I’m also open to DMs. Twitter/𝕏 is where I feel comfortable expressing my thoughts daily. I am still trying to cut back on social media, but you can still find me tweeting about something. You can follow me using the link below:

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About that June 2024 Recap….

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You might have noticed that I’ve been AFK lately. I didn’t write a June 2024 recap or July Goals blog post because I haven’t sat down at a laptop to type. I haven’t really written anything lately. It’s hard to find time to blog when I feel so tired and drained, not to mention taking care of my little kids plus the neighbors’ kids. Sometimes, I pick up work shifts whenever I can, which doesn’t leave much time for anything else. My blog, however, is still alive, and I have no intention of abandoning it completely.

No Time for Blogging 💻

I am at a difficult point in my life where I have so much going on outside of blogging, yet I still struggle to figure out exactly what to focus on when I do have free time. Should I write for myself? Should I write blog posts for my readers? Or should I be working on my Redbubble designs? All of these things take time, and all of them are important.

My hobbies are like my children: Like children, hobbies require time and attention. If you don’t give your hobbies attention, the algorithm and loyal readers will punish you. Neglecting your hobbies leaves you with “nothing” to show for it. Even the Redbubble Gods are punishing me because I haven’t updated my shop, so the algorithm doesn’t work, and I get almost no visitors due to inactivity. Ironically, I am mostly active on Twitter/𝕏, yet my profile engagement is even more dead. Unless you pay for their “enhanced services,” the algorithm won’t reward you, and you’ll get little to no engagement on that platform either.

I need to redirect my attention on what matters: By that, I mean focusing on things that actually generate results. I want to spend less time on Twitter/𝕏 (which I use when I’m bored) and YouTube, and concentrate more on writing/blogging and Redbubble. I don’t believe Redbubble is dead; it will only truly work if I actively add new designs and promote them. I have yet to find another site to sell on if I were to expand. However, migrating elsewhere would also exhaust time and energy that I don’t have.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Here’s what I actually did in June because I need to wrap up that chapter before moving onto July. ♥

June Recap 2024

Career Goals:

  • Bid for shifts. 7 shift baseline. A couple shifts were cancelled so I made those up by bidding on shifts. In the end, I still had 7 shifts and ended up breaking even
  • Catch up on emails if there are any I am pretty much caught up and to-date on emails.
  • Have 100 sticker designs in my #Redbubble shop I am currently at 98 sticker designs and am still working on reaching this goal. I added 1 new sticker design.
  • Promote stickers Twitter/𝕏 I didn’t do much promoting if at all because I haven’t been very active on Redbubble. If I were to put more time and energy into Redbubble, I would be posting more often. I plan on doing this in the upcoming months as an experiment to see if input really does equal output.

🌸 My Redbubble Shop: @sereneluna 🌸

♡ You can browse my designs here: http://shorturl.at/otvxQ

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts On June 10, 2024, I published 1 new blog post about why I quit Duolingo and deleted the app and a fellow blogger wrote a guest post on July 8, 2024. You can catch up on these blog posts below ↓ and yes they are clickable links:
  1. Why I’m Quitting Duolingo
  2. Unmasking Your True Potential (Guest Post)
  • Log into #Medium at least once/week I log in every so often but I haven’t been active on the platform.
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments I am still relying on my phone to keep track of things. My family has had a lot of appointments this summer.
  • Log into FB for the first time since 2017 I haven’t done this yet but still need to by August.
  • Pay any outstanding invoice(s) Done ✔️
  • Figure out our flight schedule(s) I have a one-way ticket and need to book my flight ticket home.

.ೃ࿔ ✈︎ *:･

Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day Since upgrading my phone, it’s I haven’t been tracking steps. My old phone fit easily in my pocket whereas my new one is bulky. Unless I’m wearing my apple watch, I am not tracking steps. I know this is a problem.
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee I quit coffee! Yep, I quit coffee 100%. I stopped drinking orange pekoe at home but will occasionally buy steeped tea. It’s much less frequent than it was before. I drink water, coconut water, sparkling water, and diet soda.
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app My water intake really suffered because I stopped tracking but by the end of August, water is all I will be allowed to drink, so I better get used to drinking water.
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app The app helps keep me motivated, and I still recommend this free app to anyone who likes to gamify fitness. You can read my review about this app here.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I know this is an unconventional blog post and it’s somewhat disjointed, but I wanted to summarize my activities during June. July has been even more unusual, as I’ve strayed from my goals while working on unrelated tasks. Ideally, I want to refocus on the most meaningful activities and reduce time spent on less important matters. Of course, that’s easier said than done.

Finally, I am curious to know how you are doing with your goals and blogging schedule, and whether or not you accomplished what you were hoping to. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter/𝕏 (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. It is harder than ever to grow on that platform but I really do enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

June Goals | Summer 2024

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Okay, so there wasn’t a May Goals blog post so I didn’t feel like it was necessary to write a May Goals recap, for obvious reasons. Now that it is June, it is a new month which for me, which also means new beginnings. I am in a sense, starting over. I will give you more context later on in the blog post. Oh, and in case you missed last month’s blog post, I will post a link down below:

May Goals? What Goals?

Ⓗⓔⓛⓛⓞ Ⓢⓤⓜⓜⓔⓡ Ⓗⓔⓛⓛⓞ Ⓙⓤⓝⓔ

＊˚*•̩̩͙ Who I Want to Become •̩̩͙*˚＊

Remember how I started off strong at the beginning of January? Like any habit, we lose them if we don’t use them. Over time, I started slipping to the point where I abandoned the 75-Hard program completely. Despite that, I still lost some weight, but it wasn’t enough.

The hardest part was coming to terms with it instead of living in denial. I knew that I was disproportionate in my waist compared to the rest of my body, but I didn’t know by how much. I still mostly wear the same clothes, but they don’t fit comfortably. Then I took my tape measure because I had to get measurements for my dress, and well, it wasn’t pretty. I cried after coming face to face with reality. I don’t want to live in a fantasy world and I do consider myself a realist. I see things for how they are in present moment. So I came to terms with it, wiped away my tears, and started over yet again. I have until September to fit into one of the 3 beautiful dresses that I ordered online!

Here We Go Again (˚ ˃̣̣̥⌓˂̣̣̥ )

I guess you could say I am not doing the 75-Hard program as intended, but I do not care. I am here to lose my belly pooch and am hyper-focused on diet and exercise. I don’t want to read a non-fiction book or any book for that matter, so I am not going to. I still wanted to incorporate some kind of discipline/mental toughness task into my routine, so instead of 10 pages of reading a day, I have decided to do 30 minutes of creative work, whether that is blogging, journaling, or completing an intimidating task that I have been putting off for weeks. It could be a design for my #Redbubble shop since I haven’t worked on that hobby in several weeks, decluttering items and writing ads for them, or bracelet making. Whatever it is, it needs to be creative work and not some kind of chore or busy work. And this is on top of the goals I have for June 2024!

June Goals 2024

Career Goals:

  • I have 7 shifts this month. Bidding is optional.
  • Catch up on emails if there are any.
  • Have 100 sticker designs in my #Redbubble shop → 3 designs away from this goal
  • Promote my Spring & Summer stickers online → From $1.63 CAD (Ignore the $1.98 price)
➤ Click here to visit my Redbubble shop 🐈‍⬛💕

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts
  • Log into #Medium at least once/week
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments
  • Log into FB for the first time since 2017
  • Pay any outstanding invoice(s)
  • Figure out our flight schedule(s)

Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day → leave the house at least once/day ☀️
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee
  • Intermittent fasting. No food after 7:00pm
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app
🌸 ℑ’𝔪 𝔟𝔢𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔳𝔲𝔩𝔫𝔢𝔯𝔞𝔟𝔩𝔢 𝔬𝔫 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔰 𝔟𝔩𝔬𝔤, 𝔰𝔬 𝔞𝔩𝔩 ℑ 𝔞𝔰𝔨 𝔦𝔰 𝔱𝔥𝔞𝔱 𝔶𝔬𝔲’𝔯𝔢 𝔨𝔦𝔫𝔡. 𝔑𝔬 𝔫𝔞𝔰𝔱𝔶 𝔢𝔪𝔞𝔦𝔩𝔰 𝔱𝔢𝔩𝔩𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔪𝔢 ℑ’𝔪 𝔞 𝔥𝔶𝔭𝔬𝔠𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔢 𝔬𝔯 𝔰𝔬𝔪𝔢𝔬𝔫𝔢 𝔴𝔥𝔬 𝔡𝔬𝔢𝔰𝔫’𝔱 𝔩𝔦𝔳𝔢 𝔲𝔭 𝔱𝔬 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔦𝔯 𝔴𝔬𝔯𝔡, 𝔬𝔯 𝔴𝔥𝔞𝔱𝔢𝔳𝔢𝔯 𝔟𝔞𝔰𝔢𝔩𝔢𝔰𝔰 𝔞𝔠𝔠𝔲𝔰𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔬𝔫𝔰 𝔥𝔞𝔳𝔢 𝔟𝔢𝔢𝔫 𝔱𝔥𝔯𝔬𝔴𝔫 𝔞𝔱 𝔪𝔢 𝔦𝔫 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔭𝔞𝔰𝔱 𝔣𝔬𝔯 𝔟𝔢𝔦𝔫𝔤 𝔬𝔭𝔢𝔫 𝔞𝔟𝔬𝔲𝔱 𝔪𝔶 𝔰𝔱𝔯𝔲𝔤𝔤𝔩𝔢𝔰 🌸

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

There are a few appointments that I need to book this summer, but I didn’t include them in my general list of goals. I have them written down on my phone, and I plan to complete them close to September. Both my husband and I need to travel to Ontario, but at different times, so I don’t know what’s happening yet. Overall, I think my goals are reasonable and not too extreme. I know I’m strict about my diet, but I have limited time to accomplish what needs to get done. And when you’re under pressure, you find a way to get it done. My next weigh-in is tomorrow. Wish me luck! 🙏💕

I am curious to know what your goals are for the month of June. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. Trying to grow on Twitter/𝕏 is hard and I’m constantly having to weed out those pesky bots and fake accounts—it’s so annoying! If you’re a real person, you don’t have to worry about me removing you. I can spot those bot accounts from a mile away, so you can trust me on that.

(っ◔◡◔)っ You can find all of my links and socials here!👉 https://linktr.ee/sereneluna

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

May Goals? What Goals?

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Let’s pretend that May did not happen. I totally let my blog posts slip this month and did not post any May Goals at all. Should I even bother? Is there even a point?

🅼🅰🆈 🅼🅰🅳🅴 🅸🆃 🆁🅰🅸🅽.

Image source: https://wallpaper.mob.org/

No Laptop, No Blog Posts.

Simply put, I didn’t use my laptop and I only write blog posts using a computer. If I am active on WordPress, I’m usually using my phone, but I only write blog posts using my laptop. So, why didn’t I use my laptop this month? Well, there are a bunch of reasons, but mostly it’s because I was either babysitting kids who invited themselves over to our house almost every day this month, or I’m avoiding my laptop on purpose. I won’t go into details, but I have been procrastinating on a few things. Rather than deal with the dumpster fires that the the rain did not put out, I have been running from them. Now that it’s the end of May, I can’t run away from my problems anymore.

Lately, my mind has been preoccupied with other things other than blogging. I am afraid that if I were to start a new thing that I will get overwhelmed as it is one more thing for my brain to process. Does that make sense? There’s a lot of stuff for my brain to process that eventually it gets “overheated” and I just can’t function. I am at that point right now and it’s a little overwhelming. Like I mentioned last month, “I take responsibility for this lack of engagement as I haven’t been very active here. Nevertheless, I truly appreciate those who come across my blog and take the time to read my content.”

🅸’🅼 🆃🅰🅺🅸🅽🅶 🅰 🆂🆃🅴🅿 🅱🅰🅲🅺 🆂🅾 🅸 🅲🅰🅽 🆃🅰🅺🅴 🅰 🆂🆃🅴🅿 🅵🅾🆁🅴🆆🅾🆁🅳.

Image source: https://wallpaper.mob.org/

I find myself still grappling with my procrastination and am committed to finishing my overwhelming list of tasks by the end of May, or at the latest, early June. I must allocate time to sit down, open my laptop, do some online bridesmaid dress shopping, take body measurements, place the order, sift through emails, and revisit a social media platform I have neglected since 2017. Unironically, I have some items to sell on that social media platform, which means I must log into my account whether I like it or not. My husband has had success selling his used stuff on that platform, and I don’t want to list my items on his account anymore because I feel like I’m burdening him.

I feel like I spend way too much time mindlessly scrolling on my phone and it’s taking a toll on my productivity and mental well-being. I need to take a step back and reevaluate my relationship with technology and social media. Deep down, I know that I need to step into nature and go back to basic living. I need to stop consuming so much content and start creating again. I think it’s time for a digital detox, and I’m determined to reclaim control over my time and attention. The biggest thing that prevents me from deleting apps is that I listen to podcasts and lectures all day, every day. I like learning new things and need to listen to something to help me cope with stress.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

Despite the challenges, I have to find a way to push through and complete these tasks on my own schedule, which means ditching the May Goals and focusing on the things that are most important. I also hope to declutter my space and make some extra money doing this because why not? I still have my notebook so perhaps I should start using it more and my phone less. Aiming to complete 5 critical tasks a day sounds ideal for me. I am just thinking out loud here so I hope I didn’t bore you too much with this blog post.

If I delete the app, I will lose the pink aesthetic.

For those following me on Twitter/𝕏, I’m still active there, sharing my current hobbies and interests. If you have an account, feel free to follow me, and I’ll follow you back! I’m also open to DMs. Twitter/𝕏 is where I feel comfortable expressing my thoughts daily. I am seriously thinking about deleting the app off my phone and only using it on a laptop, so I might not be as active on there as I once was. You can follow me using the link below:

♡ Quick Link: https://mobile.twitter.com/serene_hilz

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

April Recap | Spring 2024

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I didn’t keep up with my daily reading goal in April. However, I know that reading is beneficial and helps me unwind at night. Moving forward, I’ll turn off my phone from 8 PM to 6 AM and read books to calm my mind before bed instead of listen to podcasts and scroll the internet. Last night, I was we working on this blog post from my laptop and staring at another screen late at night, even though my inner voice says not to do it. Unrelated, but I almost used this cover photo for my blog a while ago because it’s calming and pleasant to look at.

＊˚*•̩̩͙ Am I Evolving? •̩̩͙*˚＊

I had my last physical therapy appointment at the end of April and “graduated” from physiotherapy. PT told me that I’m allowed to return anytime, but for now, I don’t have any more appointments scheduled. Does this mean I passed? Yes and no. I know what I need to do, but I’m not as diligent as I should be, so more work can be done in this area. I have to still work on my core exercises and drink more water.

Lately, I have been sleeping a lot, but that’s not new for me. I do tend to sleep a lot, but I have been exceptionally tired lately. Sleeping during the day wastes a lot of time, so I’m not accomplishing what I want to. In terms of exercise, I do what I can, but I don’t have a set schedule these days. When it comes to diet, my weight has stayed the same, and I seem to have reached a plateau. I’m not very hungry these days and only eat when I’m hungry, so I don’t eat much. The biggest problem I had with HCLF was that I had to eat often and frequently, and I eventually got so sick and tired of eating sugary, sweet foods all the time. It was “too much of a good thing” as they say. These days, I’m not counting calories and try to cook at home as often as possible. Any treats I buy are heavily discounted, and I stopped shopping at Dollarama because I was no longer getting a good deal there.

I want to continue cutting back on expenses as much as possible because: a) I hate debt if any kind (this includes mortgage which is my only debt right now); b) clutter/junk gives me anxiety; and c) we are headed towards a recession if we aren’t already in one.

April Recap 2024

Career Goals:

  • Bid for shifts for the second half of April I ended up getting more shifts without having to bid on them. I ended up with 7 shifts for the month of April which is below my goal of 10+ shifts/month. I don’t get nearly as many shifts as I did last year.
  • Catch up on emails if there are any I am pretty much caught up and to-date on emails.
  • Have 100 sticker designs in my #Redbubble shop I am currently at 97 sticker designs and am still working on reaching this goal. Sticker designs were not my priority during the month of April and I only added 1 new sticker design in April. Btw, it’s cherry blossom season and a kind soul from Spain just bought 2 large cherry blossom themed stickers. Thank you~! 😊🌸
  • Promote my cherry blossom stickers Twitter/𝕏 → From $1.63 CAD (Ignore the $1.98 price) I didn’t do much promoting during the month of April but once I add some new designs to the shop, I plan on posting more often on Twitter/𝕏.

🌸 My Redbubble Shop: @sereneluna 🌸

♡ You can browse my designs here: http://shorturl.at/otvxQ

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts I published 3 blog posts this month, in addition to the usual monthly goals and blog recaps. I didn’t see a significant boost in engagement, but it’s encouraging to have frequent readers. You can catch up on these blog posts below ↓ and yes they are clickable links:
  1. “Spot the Gnome” Game
  2. Blog Posts Left Unwritten
  3. Is Blogging Right For You?
  • Write 1 personal development article for #Medium I don’t think I added any new articles to Medium. Instead, I focused more on blogging.
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments I somehow manage by using my phone calendar. My son’s forms for Montessori were sent and SLP received the necessary paperwork they needed. Also, my husband and I finally got our medical forms completed and sent them to SW.
  • Read 10 pages of a personal development book each day Nope, it did not happen. I miss reading but my current personal development book is boring. I still plan on finishing it before moving on to the next book.
  • Purchase tickets for Otafest 2024 I bought tickets and I will be bringing my family with me to Otafest this year. I have no idea what to expect, so expect the unexpected I guess?

🌸 I’ve never been to a convention but always wanted to go to one! 🌸

Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day I have been averaging 4,500 – 6,000 steps/day which isn’t great. Some days, it’s much less than 4,500 steps.
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee I already do this but started adding very diluted 100% fruit juice for some more variety.
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app My water intake really suffered during the month of April but this app still helps me when I’m actively tracking hydration. It takes caffeine and different beverages into account.
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app The app helps keep me motivated, and I still recommend this free app to anyone who likes to gamify fitness. You can read my review about this app here.
  • HCLF diet 90% of the time No more HCLF dieting for me 🙅‍♀️ In the beginning, I loved it but I got tired of it real quick. It’s definitely not for me but was fun while it lasted. Also, having no overt oils doesn’t work with my family’s diet and lifestyle.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I also want to mention that I completely forgot about my “Power List” again, so this system isn’t going to work for me long-term. My husband suggested that I try blocking time out of my day, so I might try that and see if it works better. Has anyone tried block scheduling other than in university? Is that what it’s called…block scheduling? Here is an example of what I’m talking about.

Source: https://www.deskbird.com/blog/time-block-schedules

Finally, I am curious to know what your goals were for the month of April and whether or not you accomplished what you were hoping to. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter/𝕏 (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. It is harder than ever to grow on that platform but I really do enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

April Goals | Spring 2024

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First and foremost, thank you for reading my blog posts month after month. To my loyal readers, I see you and appreciate all of you. I also value new readers and even the ones who lurk – you know, the ones who read my blog posts but never leave a like or comment. I’m aware of the lurkers based on my stats, even though there hasn’t been much engagement lately. I take responsibility for this lack of engagement as I haven’t been very active here. Nevertheless, I truly appreciate those who come across my blog and take the time to read my content.

For those following me on Twitter/𝕏, I’m still active there, sharing my current hobbies and interests. If you have an account, feel free to follow me, and I’ll follow you back! I’m also open to DMs. Twitter/𝕏 is where I feel comfortable expressing my thoughts daily. You can follow me using the link below:

♡ Quick Link: https://mobile.twitter.com/serene_hilz

𝒜𝓅𝓇𝒾𝓁 𝓈𝒽💮𝓌𝑒𝓇𝓈, 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝑀𝒶𝓎 𝒻𝓁💮𝓌𝑒𝓇𝓈.

＊˚*•̩̩͙ Who I Want to Become •̩̩͙*˚＊

I know I should be working on hobbies during my free time, but when is there ever free time? lol You know what I mean. I find myself struggling to work on hobbies, which includes writing blog posts, posting recipes (I have a bunch that I want to share with you), and building and creating things. Instead of creating things, I often find myself trying to fill a void – a shopping void. Yikes. I try not to be materialistic, but lately, I have found some comfort there. It’s weird, and I need to pause, breathe, and reflect. I have tons of crafting supplies, so it’s just a matter of starting. Instead, I keep wanting to accumulate more supplies because I am afraid to start, and this is my way of distracting myself. When I am not browsing the internet, window shopping, or wanting to buy things to fill this empty void in my life, I just want to sleep, play a dumb game on my phone, or do some other mindless activity.

Building and creating things brings me joy, so why is it such a struggle? I need to work through this resistance, and there is no better time than now. So there’s that, and possibly revisiting my Power List. I do need to find my planner, so perhaps I can start with that, and monthly goals of course.

April Goals 2024

Career Goals:

  • Bid for shifts for second half of April
  • Catch up on emails if there are any
  • Have 100 sticker designs in my #Redbubble shop
  • promote my cherry blossom stickers Twitter/𝕏 → From $1.63 CAD (Ignore the $1.98 price)
♡ You can browse my designs here: http://shorturl.at/otvxQ

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts
  • Catch up on #Medium articles, comments, etc.
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments
  • Get forms from Montessori for SLP
  • Complete medical forms for SW → Appt April 10, 2024
  • Purchase tickets for Otafest 2024
🌸 I’ve never been to a convention but always wanted to go to one! 🌸

Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day → leave the house at least once/day ☀️
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app (3000mL water/day)
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app
  • HCLF diet 90% of the time
Photo is my own. Pineapples are life! 🍍🍍

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

My mental health has been questionable lately, but I find comfort in writing on WP. I don’t know why I don’t do it more often, to be honest. Putting my thoughts into writing helps me process emotions and solve problems. I don’t feel like I’m talking to a wall because I know people are reading my blog posts, and that brings me comfort. Just knowing that there’s someone out there who cares, even if we don’t talk face-to-face, helps me feel less alone. I hope I can pull through this slump and thrive for the rest of April.

I am curious to know what your goals are for the month of April. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. It is so hard to grow on that platform but I really do enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

(っ◔◡◔)っ You can find all of my links and socials here!👉 https://linktr.ee/sereneluna

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

March Recap | Spring 2024

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Continuing from where I left off last month, I didn’t keep up with my daily goal of reading 10 pages a day because I chose to spend that time on other things. If I were to resume reading, I would prefer to do it at bedtime rather than first thing in the morning. The book I had been reading before I stopped this habit was a bit boring, but I do intend to finish it eventually. It’s not a terrible book; I just don’t want to invest too much mental energy into it right now.

＊˚*•̩̩͙ Who I Am Becoming •̩̩͙*˚＊

Ever since my PT appointment at the end of February, I have been struggling to maintain my strict daily routine of two 45-minute workouts, having a clean diet, reading 10 pages, and drinking close to a gallon of water. I managed to follow a program called 75 Hard for 30 days (I won’t go into detail about it here), but I did learn a lot from it. I discovered what doesn’t work for me and what is beneficial, even if it’s not what I feel like doing. Wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things. It’s important not to make decisions based solely on emotions and feelings.

I had another PT appointment at the end of March, and I need to start tracking my water intake because the headaches have returned with a vengeance. Drinking 2-3 large bottles of water is non-negotiable for me, even though I struggle to drink plain water if I’m not actively tracking it. I’ve also started adding 5-calorie drink mixes to my water, which makes it much more palatable for me. However, the artificial sugars and food coloring in these drinks could be making my headaches worse. I also tried cutting out caffeine, but I experienced withdrawal headaches, so I’m back to drinking orange pekoe tea again. The goal here is to stay hydrated. Speaking of goals, here is a recap of my monthly goals for March 2024:

March Recap 2024

Career Goals:

  • Bid for shifts for March as they become available When it came time to bid on shifts, the shift callouts were super last minute so I decided not to bid on them.
  • Catch up on emails if there are any I am mostly caught up on emails. There is a random MLL course that I need to take though.
  • Add 5 new designs on #Redbubble Redbubble fixed the pricing issue, so I’m not sure what was up with that. All of my stickers are priced from $1.63 if you buy any 10 stickers in my shop. I don’t know how many designs I added in March because I got distracted by another hobby. I currently have 96 designs in my Redbubble shop. Btw, it’s cherry blossom season and I’ve added several cherry blossom sticker designs to my shop!
  • Design more art for my Ko-fi gallery + do more research I’ve decided to pivot away from this and focus more on local markets. I’ll start locally and see how it goes from there. I want to test the waters first, so I’ll probably try Facebook Marketplace, even though I haven’t used my FB account since 2017. Before I start selling anything, I need to build my inventory, so that’s what I will be working on in the upcoming months.

🌸 My Redbubble Shop: @sereneluna 🌸

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts I’m not doing much extra in terms of blogging because I make $0 from blogging. It doesn’t seem like a good use of my time. That being said, blogging helps keep me accountable so that’s why I upload blog posts month after month.
  • Write 1 personal development article for #Medium Yes! I actually did this mainly because you have to stay active if you’re part of the Medium Partner Program (MPP). Because my article is about writing for Medium, I didn’t share the article separately on my blog. However, if you would like to read my article, you can read it here.
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments I somehow manage by using my phone calendar. Tomorrow will try and get forms from the Montessori that I need to fill out for my toddler.
  • Read 10 pages of a personal development book each day Nope, it did not happen. I miss reading but my current personal development book is boring so I’m not too eager to read right now.
  • Send snail mail before end of the month Yes! I sent snail mail and everyone got their mail by the end of the month so that makes me happy.

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Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day I have been averaging 4,500 – 6,000 steps/day which isn’t great.
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee I’m pretty good with this, but I do struggle to drink plain water. I much rather drink orange pekoe tea. The 5-cal drink mixes help me drink more water but I try to drink plain water most days.
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app I frequently forget to monitor my water consumption, but my physiotherapist has advised me to track it regularly and be more diligent about it.
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app The app helps keep me motivated, and I still recommend this free app to anyone who likes to gamify fitness. You can read my review about this app here.
  • Healthy/clean eating 80% of the time I follow a HCLF diet these days. If you’re not familiar with this acronym, please google it. I’m tired of constantly having to explain myself and deal with others’ opinions. This diet may not be popular, but it’s common in Asia and Africa. I’ve noticed that many people in the Western world are overweight or obese, so I’m making an effort to distance myself as much as possible from the Standard American Diet (SAD) and trendy diets like low carb, paleo, keto, etc. By default, my diet is mostly vegan but I do eat meat and dairy as long as it qualifies as low fat.

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I also want to mention that I completely forgot about my “Power List” because I don’t like writing things down in a notebook and often forget to write things down in a notepad on my phone. The power list absolutely does work if you’re actively keeping on top of your critical tasks. For me, it’s remembering to do the thing that I’m struggling with the most. I have tried productivity apps. I have tried sticky notes. I have tried a notebook only to lose the notebook on multiple occasions. I wish my ADD brain would remember to do things without needing constant reminders. I need to find a better way to remember everything each day. I tend to get fixated on one or two things and forget about everything else. That’s the unmedicated ADD brain for you, minus the hyperactivity. I don’t have the hyperactive aspect of ADHD.

👉 This is my 💩 to do notebook, where I write down my tasks. Doing the tasks is still hard for me.

Finally, I am curious to know what your goals were for the month of March and whether or not you accomplished what you were hoping to. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter/𝕏 (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. It is harder than ever to grow on that platform but I really do enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

Thanks for stopping by! ♥

March Goals | Spring 2024

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I apologize for the delay in writing this blog post; I’ve been preoccupied with tasks other than what I should have been doing. Lately, I’ve been catching up on sleep and playing a mobile game called Eatventure, which has taken over my life since the devs added the “Clubs” feature. Having reached level 120 and completed two full rounds of this game, I think I’ll be taking a break for a while. I’ve also managed to catch up on sleep, although I tend to crash and sleep for 10-12 hours at a time. My energy levels fluctuate between being wide awake and completely exhausted.

For those following me on #Twitter, I’ll be sharing updates on my workouts, water intake, daily steps, and occasionally posting creative works like poems, unpopular opinions, and photos. Twitter/𝕏 is where I feel comfortable opening up and sharing my thoughts on a daily basis. You can follow me using the link below:

♡ Quick Link: https://mobile.twitter.com/serene_hilz

ℑ𝔱’𝔰 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔩𝔲𝔠𝔨 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 ℑ𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔥🍀

＊˚*•̩̩͙ Who I Want to Become •̩̩͙*˚＊

I still have the dream of becoming the person I want to be. I aspire to be a confident girl who feels comfortable in her own skin. While I don’t care much about becoming a social media influencer, I do want to inspire others to take accountability and responsibility in their lives. I may not be a leader as I am more of a follower, but I have creative ideas and gifts that I want to share with the world. I believe that if I don’t share my gifts, it would be a waste not to use my talents. It’s frustrating to try to stand out when everyone else is competing for the same thing. Sometimes, I feel like my thoughts get lost in a sea of words.

Lately, I haven’t been sticking to my water goals and fitness goals. Instead, I have been doing whatever I please to try and figure out what brings me joy. Moving forward, I believe that a daily to-do list (aka. Power List) is honestly the way to go. As exhausting as it may be (I have tried this in the past), I feel like it is the most sustainable option long-term because it would not be a generic list but rather a personalized list. I need to find a way to incorporate all three areas of my life (career, personal, and health) into a list that I can check off each day to help move the needle forward. These are just my thoughts—I am thinking out loud!

March Goals 2024

Career Goals:

  • Bid for shifts for March as they become available
  • Catch up on emails if there are any
  • Add 5 new sticker designs to my #Redbubble shop
  • Design more art for my Ko-fi gallery + do more research
♡ You can browse my designs here: http://shorturl.at/otvxQ

Personal Goals:

  • Publish 1-2 blog posts + monthly goals/recap blog posts
  • Write 1 personal development article for #Medium
  • Keep tabs on doctor’s appointments/pending appointments
  • Read 10 pages of a personal development book each day
  • Send snail mail before end of the month
I miss sending snail mail to pen pals who live far away 😓

Health Goals:

  • Aim for 10,000 steps/day
  • Limit drinks to water, tea, and coffee
  • Track hydration on Water Llama app (3000mL water/day)
  • Track steps on Pikmin Bloom app
  • Clean eating 80% of the time

(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ FINAL THOUGHTS ♥

I feel like I have lost my way since the beginning of March and am still trying to find balance in my life. Most days, I feel too tired, and on other days, too lazy to tackle big projects. I also sense that things have changed on WordPress, and I’m not sure if it’s due to a recent update, but I am not getting the same level of engagement as before. I acknowledge that I have been MIA, so this is probably my fault. It’s strangely quiet here these days. Perhaps I need to reach out to more people and see if I can boost the algorithm or something.

I am curious to know what your goals are for the month of March. Feel free to let me know in the comments section below ↓ Also, I would really appreciate it if you followed me on Twitter (@serene_hilz), that is, if you aren’t already a follower. It is so hard to grow on that platform but I really do enjoy using it to connect with like-minded bloggers.

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Thanks for stopping by! ♥