On September 17, 2019, Stiina Marie nominated me for the Sunshine Blogger Award. This would have been my 8th award and I was planning to complete it when I had the opportunity to do so. It usually takes me several months to complete these awards. Also, I am very picky about the types of awards I complete, mainly because these awards are so mainstream and repetitive these days. Seriously, everyone and their moms get these awards. People have even started naming awards after themselves, which is a bit self-conceited if you ask me #unpopular-opinion
Sadly, it looks like I am a little too late to the party. Instead of being greeted by a working link, I was greeted by this oh-so familiar message from WordPress, which felt a punch in the proverbial gut. If you are a blogger, you probably know what I am talking about:
Stiina Marie, I hope that you return to WP one day. It seems like the blogging community loses fellow bloggers on a regular basis, which is a real shame. Well, this concludes the Sunshine Blogger Award 8.0!
Thanks for stopping by! โค
Just kidding. It would mean a lot to me if you grabbed a coffee and took a moment to read this blog post! โ๐
The Sunshine Blogger Award is per recognition award for bloggers who inspire readers by promoting positivity and bringing joy. Thank you, Michelle, for nominating me for the award on December 11, 2019. Michelle blogs about her personal life and offers practical advice that is not only relatable, but also covers topics like mental health and well-being. I highly recommend that you check out Michelle’s blog if these topics interest you.
๐Sunshine Blogger Award Rules๐
The Sunshine Blogger Award has rules (surprise, surprise!). These rules ensure the success of this award, providing exposure to all the award winners. The rules are quite simple and straightforward.
Rules for Award:
- Thank the person who nominated you and provide a link back to their blog so others can find them.
- Answer the 11 questions asked by the blogger who nominated you.
- Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 new questions.
- Notify the nominees about it by commenting on one of their blog posts.
- List the rules and display a Sunshine Blogger Award logo on your post and/or your blog site.
Questions I was asked:
1. What is your favourite thing about blogging? Engaging with my readers, responding to comments, and following interesting bloggers! I get more enjoyment from interacting with people than I get from writing blog posts and humble-bragging about myself.
2. What do you like about winter? Nothing, unless you count Christmas. That being said Christmas typically lasts 2+ months which is WAY too long.
3. What do you hate about winter? I do not like the snow, slush, ice, snow, melted ice, slush, and more snow. Scraping off icy snow from my car each morning and praying that my car will start is the most anxiety-provoking thing ever. We can talk about winter after you try living in Canada ๐

Photo taken on a cloudy, cold day in Banff, Alberta BC (Before COVID-19)
4. Do you celebrate Christmas? Absolutely. I didn’t go home for Christmas 2017 and I didn’t decorate my house. My husband was out of town so I ended up watching TV re-runs on Christmas day, which was really depressing.

A non-traditional Christmas tree | Christmas 2019
5. Have you ever written a blog post and later decided not to publish it? Can you describe the post and why you decided not to publish it? I currently have 34 unpublished posts and 98% of them are blank drafts. They’re mostly just titles for potential blog posts. If I recall, I wrote a rough draft about my Steeped Tea addiction, but never ended up writing the final copy. It wasn’t really an addiction since I was able to easily quit the following month. I love Steeped Tea but it’s not worth the price of $2.30 per drink. I’m a broke, frugal student and this habit was burning a hole through my wallet. I will happily accept gift cards though! ๐
6. Which country would you like to visit and why? I previously answered this question in ๐The Sunshine Blogger Award๐ and to cut to the chase, I would love to visit Japan!
7. How do you overcome a struggle? Good question. When faced with adversity, most people would probably give up and quit. Most people like to play victim and use the “poor me” get-out-of jail card, which is a pet peeve of mine. You see, I don’t have victim mentality. I refuse to quit, and I learned to embrace challenges. Even at my lowest, when I was suicidal and diagnosed with major depression, I kept fighting. Did I mention that I live medication-free? It IS possible to function even if you have a mental illness. I just refuse to accept that my life is hopeless and that depression rules my life. In most cases, depression is situational.

The Pug Life is hard too ๐พ
8. Can you share one positive thing about yourself? I have a good heart โค People have told me that my advice can be harsh and abrasive, but I have good intentions. A good friend is someone who is truthful and honest, even if the truth stings. I believe that it is better to have a friend like that than someone who always agrees with you. And if I am wrong, please tell me and we can have a mature conversation about it over coffee sometime.
9. What is one thing you want to do that you havenโt done yet? I really want to graduate from nursing school! ๐ฉโ๐ I was supposed to graduate a year ago and I am ready to move on with my life.
10. What is your favorite song at the moment? I don’t have a favourite song. My favourite music genre is Chillstep. Also, Lo-Fi hip hop music is starting to grow on me but I don’t know if I would classify it as a favourite genre.

I think I have 500+ subscribers now? I haven’t logged into this account in ages.
11. What is your favorite movie? I don’t have a favourite movie ๐คทโโ๏ธ
๐SUNSHINE BLOGGER AWARD NOMINEES๐
I have received several requests from bloggers asking me to nominate them for a Sunshine Blogger Award, so I decided to leave it open to anyone who wants to complete it! Please answer the following questions below โ
Questions for You:
1. What year did you start blogging?
2. What is the theme of your blog?
3. What topics do you write about most often?
4. Do you write short stories? Do you write poetry?
5. How has the COVID-19 pandemic affected you?
6. Have you ever gone to a meetup, such as the meetups from meetup.com?
7. Have you ever sold something on Facebook marketplace? What did you sell?
8. Have you ever bought something from Facebook marketplace? What did you buy?
9. Is it better to be rich, boring person or a poor, adventurous person?
10. Can you share one positive thing about yourself?
11. What is one thing you want to do that you havenโt done yet?
Andโฆ.GO!! I know you have very busy lives outside of the blogging world and I appreciate that you took the time to read this blog post! I look forward to reading your answers if you decide to participate in the Sunshine Blogger Award.
๐ congratulations!
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Thank you, Wendi! ๐
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๐ you are very welcome!
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I’m sending you some snail mail! Ty for your hand-written letter btw. I really enjoyed reading it and I am not sure if I personally thanked you yet โค
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๐ awww………thank you so very much! I am looking forward to receiving another precious letter from you! ๐
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Knowing snail mail, itโs understandable that itโs taking a while to arrive! ๐ Hopefully you get it soon!
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I hope so too! ๐ thank you again for sending a letter……such a happy day to receive such awesome mail.
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thank you so very much, I received it today! ๐
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Thatโs great, Wendi! I was starting to worry that your mail didnโt arrive. So happy you got it. Have a blessed day! ๐๐ป๐
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Thank you so much! I will get a letter out to you soon!
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Thatโs really nice of you, Wendi! Iโm looking forward to it โฅ๏ธ
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Hey Hilary ๐ My letter to you went out today. Hope you and yours are well.
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Congratulations
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Thank you! ๐๐
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Your welcome
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Congratulations, Hilary!!
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Thank you for reading! ๐๐
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Congratulations maโam ๐๐๐
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Thank you for reading, Kriti! ๐๐
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Congratulations! Canadian winters are really… something special… I love winter but taking the bus at 7 in the morning is not fun!
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Thank you for reading, Pooja! ๐ Even though I don’t have other countries to compare Canadian winters to, from what I heard, the weather is milder everywhere else it seems. If I could move to a warmer place, I would, but at the same time, I really like it here!
My sister-in-law had to take the bus at 7am in the morning in Toronto. It could have been the same bus! Are you still in Canada, or are you in Kenya right now? I hope you decide to stay in Canada for a while longer, especially now that it’s summer! ๐
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I’m still in Canada and I am definitely enjoying the summer! This is my first summer in Canada and it’s been super fun so far. How are your classes going or are you done with your semester?
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How long are you in Canada for? How many semesters do you have left? I just finished Term 7 yesterday (8 terms total) so final focus starts in September.
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I have 2 more semesters left and my next one starts in September as well so I’ll be here till next spring. How did your semester go?
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Spring 2020 semester went really well – my grades were really good. However, I am worried that I don’t have the clinical skills I need for final placement. Although they’re less frequent than last year, I still get nightmares. Do you plan to stay in Canada after you graduate?
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Congratulations Hilary โจ I do have such in my drafts, potential titles but empty ๐ธ . So Inspiringโจ to read how you overcome mental struggles, Happy for you. Stay Strong. Wise answers Hilary. And BTW your last nomination is still pending ๐. Hope you don’t mind, but I already have it in my draft. I have decided not to post more than a award per week. Yours will be scheduled within this July ๐. Incase you forgot, that is Lockdown tag award. I enjoyed making it. ๐ Have a beautiful day Hilary โจ๐ค๐
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Thank you, Simon! ๐ Take your time with the nomination.. no worries at all (and no hurry). That makes sense. I am kinda the same way, where I will only complete one award at a time. That’s great that you manage to post so frequently – good for you ๐ I don’t have that kind of discipline but would really like to learn how to find the motivation to write every day. I look forward to reading your award post. You might need to link me in case I miss it in the reader! ๐
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Oh yes I Will ๐๐ค I’ll let you once it is published ๐ค
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Awesome! Thank you ๐
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Great response to your award!
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Thank you for reading, Sheree! ๐
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My pleasure
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Congrats
Awesome answers
You didnโt tell me that you had a YouTube channel
Send me the link right away
I want to subscribe to it
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Hi Mohamad! Yeah… I kinda abandoned that YouTube channel a while ago but my music preferences haven’t changed that much over the years. Btw, thank you for subscribing! I might revisit that channel one day. ๐
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You are most welcome dear
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Yes! No victim mentality. I love it. Way too many people buy into the victim mentality and it doesn’t do anyone good.
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Thank you for reading, Tiffany! ๐ I saw your last email and I didn’t reply to it yet….I am really terrible for that. I just finished Term 7 yesterday, so no more excuses. ๐ Agreed, victim mentality did not help me whatsoever, so I ended up changing my mindset. Lots of books and personal development podcasts does wonders!
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No problem at all! That’s awesome. I have been listening to a lot of podcasts lately, too. What are some of your favorite personal development books/podcasts?
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There are several podcasts that I listen to. I might need to email you the list of podcasts because there are so many LOL ๐ I’ve only read a couple of personal development books, “You are a Badass” by Jen Sinero and “The Subtle Art of Not giving a F***” by Mark Manson.
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You have a good heart, that’s for sure๐
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Thank you for your kind words! ๐
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Congratulations to this, Hilary! You are nominated again for an Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award! I would love to hear from you, but if you think otherwise, I will understand. Here’s the link: https://ellesunpopularopinions.wordpress.com/2020/07/01/ideal-inspiration-blogger-award/
Congratulations!
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Hi Elle! Thank you for the nomination ๐ I will definitely consider completing this award once I am caught up on things. I will check out your link – it sounds interesting! Thank you so much for considering me for this award. It means a lot. ๐๐
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You’re very much welcome, Hilary, congratulations! ๐ โค
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Hope you are doing well, Elle ๐
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Congratulations Hilary! Canadian winters, not much can be said that is good about them! Actually, can’t think of anything really. I have a bunch of those blank drafts too, just a title, though I did delete a bunch of them recently. Well done Hilary, have a great day!๐๐บ๐
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Thank you, Steve! ๐ I will take your word for Canadian winters since you live in this crazy-cold country! โโโ
Happy Canada day! ๐
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Happy Canada Day, a day late!๐๐ฅณ๐ฅณ I missed.๐
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Thanks Steve. No worries, I didnโt celebrate Canada Day yesterday. Instead I watched YouTube videos and played Animal Crossing on the Nintendo Switch (my current obsession)
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The only thing I did was put my Canadian flag out and there were people in the neighborhood that had fireworks that I could see from my apartment. Didn’t watch all of them though, started at 7 and went until after 11.
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That’s kinda nice that you were able to watch the fireworks from the comfort of your home, but I could imagine that it was loud. Wow! 4 hours of fireworks? That seems a bit excessive (and expensive!). Still nice that you got to watch them for free!
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It wasn’t all one fireworks display, the town display only lasted 10 minutes really, but there are actually 3 towns here joined into one, each has their own fireworks, then there was 4 private fireworks displays in our neighborhood that were really very nice. All was spread out over 4 hours, but not solidly for 4 hours, there was gaps in between. Sorry about that, I should have been more clear about it. Have a great day!
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Some fireworks is better than no fireworks. There wasnโt any fireworks in sight from my balcony!
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That’s too bad. A couple of our neighborhood displays were very good, more enjoyable than the town fireworks which seem to be basically the same each year.
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I agree these awards can definitely get a bit repetitive. I stopped doing them years ago but it’s always nice to be recognised by other bloggers who enjoy your work!
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I limit it to one type of blogging award for now. I think once I hit Sunshine Blogger Award 10.0 I will switch it to something else ๐ค I keep them as โfillersโ for times when I lack creativity or feel pressure to write something. I try to keep them the same because itโs easier to keep track of the questions and nominees. I stopped nominating people because my list of nominees was getting way too long. Iโm glad that you can relate to this haha ๐
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Congratulation on the award! Love the your answers! I’m with you on the whole winter thing! I’m not a fan of being cold either!
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Right?!?! Winter is way too cold. I wish I lived somewhere with palm trees. I love palm tress… they are so pretty! ๐ด๐ด
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Congratulations Hilary for not being a quitter and congratulations for the award ๐คฉ
I believe Canada has a very long winter โ๏ธ Iโm not a winter lover, I can take it for a few days only…and thinking I was borne in winter โ๏ธ๐ but winter wonderland is so beautiful โ๏ธ๐
I hope youโll graduate soon and youโll visit Japan one day ๐ธ๐ธ๐ธ
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Hi Ribana, thank you for commenting.๐ Yes, Canada has a very long winter. 10 months of winter 2 months of summer, but it varies depending on how far north you are. Singapore is a bit too hot for me, but I can definitely see the appeal of living there.๐ด๐ด Have you been to Japan and/or other countries in Asia (besides Singapore)? ๐ธ๐ธ๐ธ
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Honestly lately I think Singapore is too hot for me too ๐คช I guess Iโll prefer more a country with springtime weather ๐ธ
Iโve never been to Japan and I hope one day Iโll be able to. So far Iโve been to Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Hong Kong, Cambodia, China, in nearby countries ๐
Still lots of countries to visit though ๐
I wish I could be a tourist forever ๐๐๐
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Heartiest congratulations to you๐ป
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Thank you so much, Shaunak! ๐
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Congratulation on your award nomination
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Thank you, Tangie! Also, thank you for following this blog! ๐๐
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You are welcome
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Christmas is the only thing I like about winter too. How is school going? School can feel like it takes a long time. Japan is also on my list of places to visit.
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Hi Michelle! Iโve been in university way too long. Currently working on my second degree and I got held back a year. Itโs no mistake that it seems to be taking forever…. because it is! ๐ Just finished Term 7 of 8 terms so the end is near. I go back to school on August 31, 2020.
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You can do it
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Hopefully! ๐๐ป๐
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Congrats
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Thank you! ๐ฅณ
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Most welcome
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Congrats!
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Thank you!
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Congratulations on your award nomination and remain safe.
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Thank you, Tangie! Stay healthy and safe as well. ๐ท
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